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cirelaw · 11-27-2022, 05:05 PM

Thanks for your kindness! I almost cry everyday!Being without Her was heart verry hard! Debby taught our daughter while be each idem for Thanks giving Dinner Which was her final family gathering Dinner before the hospital last year~ Now before in front of the beautiful urn! Does it ever get easier! Cancer kill everyone in some way~ If God created cancer He must share a cure! This hurt! Tears don't wash away the the daily, momentary or render and rips me apart. Forgive but shareing my feeilngs with you all helps THANK YOU~~~Thank God I have all of you to vent! Eric PS She picked out the beautiful Irn before her death~

Vlim · 11-28-2022, 04:03 PM

Take care, it will not go away, but it will get more tolerable over time.

Take your time to grieve and reflect, but try to regain some energy from the little positive things around you.

G.T. · 11-28-2022, 11:44 PM

It is a tough cross to bear, as Vlim said, time will dull the pain, but it will never go away. The loss of a loved one. It is a loss that is incomprehensible to most, but very real to those of us who have experienced it... Small un-explained events will bring it, the sadness, back for the rest of your life, but, as the patriarch, you have others that depend on you to provide the stability that is now your responsibilty! Celibrate her life, hang on to the great memories, and revel in the fact that she was an important part of your life, before, now, and later! She lives on in your memory. Best to you Eric, til.....lat'r....GT

cirelaw · 12-07-2022, 12:52 PM

TKS. Every moment is a reminder that bring a tears to my eyes! Thank You All For All Your Kind Words And Support` This Sugggs!

cirelaw · 12-08-2022, 05:16 PM

For the first time since Debbie's' death! They got me cleaned up and left our home for the first time and had a drink of ice tea for the woman and mother that I will forever miss!

spangy · 12-18-2022, 07:16 PM

So good to see you smile again my friend ... and don't doubt for a second that Debby isn't there smiling with you.

11-27-2022, 05:05 PM	#221
cirelaw Lifer Lifetime Forum Patron Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: PORT ST LUCIE, FLORIDA Posts: 12,216 Thanks: 6,209 Thanked 4,133 Times in 2,173 Posts	Thanks for your kindness! I almost cry everyday!Being without Her was heart verry hard! Debby taught our daughter while be each idem for Thanks giving Dinner Which was her final family gathering Dinner before the hospital last year~ Now before in front of the beautiful urn! Does it ever get easier! Cancer kill everyone in some way~ If God created cancer He must share a cure! This hurt! Tears don't wash away the the daily, momentary or render and rips me apart. Forgive but shareing my feeilngs with you all helps THANK YOU~~~Thank God I have all of you to vent! Eric PS She picked out the beautiful Irn before her death~ Attached Images

11-28-2022, 11:44 PM	#223
G.T. Lifer Lifetime Forum Patron Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Chandler Arizona Posts: 3,507 Thanks: 1,318 Thanked 3,653 Times in 1,004 Posts	Sadness and grief... It is a tough cross to bear, as Vlim said, time will dull the pain, but it will never go away. The loss of a loved one. It is a loss that is incomprehensible to most, but very real to those of us who have experienced it... Small un-explained events will bring it, the sadness, back for the rest of your life, but, as the patriarch, you have others that depend on you to provide the stability that is now your responsibilty! Celibrate her life, hang on to the great memories, and revel in the fact that she was an important part of your life, before, now, and later! She lives on in your memory. Best to you Eric, til.....lat'r....GT

12-08-2022, 05:16 PM	#225
cirelaw Lifer Lifetime Forum Patron Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: PORT ST LUCIE, FLORIDA Posts: 12,216 Thanks: 6,209 Thanked 4,133 Times in 2,173 Posts	For the first time since Debbie's' death! They got me cleaned up and left our home for the first time and had a drink of ice tea for the woman and mother that I will forever miss! Attached Thumbnails

12-18-2022, 07:16 PM	#226
spangy Lifer Lifetime Forum Patron Join Date: Sep 2020 Location: Winnipeg, Canada Posts: 617 Thanks: 3,065 Thanked 1,057 Times in 429 Posts	So good to see you smile again my friend ... and don't doubt for a second that Debby isn't there smiling with you. __________________ Whoever said that "money can't buy you happiness" never bought a Luger. WTB - Take Down Lever & Trigger Plate (#90) for an Imperial Artillery.

11-28-2022, 04:03 PM	#222
Vlim Moderator Lifetime LugerForum Patron Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Europe Posts: 5,053 Thanks: 1,036 Thanked 3,989 Times in 1,205 Posts	Take care, it will not go away, but it will get more tolerable over time. Take your time to grieve and reflect, but try to regain some energy from the little positive things around you.

12-07-2022, 12:52 PM	#224
cirelaw Lifer Lifetime Forum Patron Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: PORT ST LUCIE, FLORIDA Posts: 12,216 Thanks: 6,209 Thanked 4,133 Times in 2,173 Posts	TKS. Every moment is a reminder that bring a tears to my eyes! Thank You All For All Your Kind Words And Support` This Sugggs!